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The Unwritten Rules of the Game (Seriously. There Are Rules!)

I love writers.

Seriously. Nobody understands a writer like other writers. Creative people don’t think like normal people. (Stop snickering!) Our brains are wired differently. Don’t believe me? It’s been researched by psychologists, neurologists, and probably a lot of other disciplines I’m currently unaware of. But that’s another topic for another time. Maybe.

Writers support each other. We listen to each other whine and complain when things aren’t going well. We celebrate each others’ successes. We promote each others’ books. We follow each others’ blogs and like each others’ Facebook pages. We retweet each others’ Tweets. Sure, there are always a few rotten apples, even in the literary barrel–those who give nothing but expect everything–but for the most part, we’re there for each other. Years ago, when I was starting out, a group of us got together once a month for dinner, during which we’d share publishing info and bounce ideas off each other. We traveled to writers conferences together. 

One of the best bits of advice my agent gave me shortly after the sale of my first novel was to join a local writers group. She stressed the importance of networking, of getting to know other writers. She was so right. No one, not even a writer, is an island. The more writers I got to know, the more I realized how much I didn’t know about “the business.”

I’ve been fortunate to have had good friends in the writers community throughout the almost thirty years I’ve been in the business, first in traditional publishing, then as a self-published author. And I’ve learned a great deal from each of them….

1. Read each others’ books–and review them! If you expect other authors to review your book, you’d better be reviewing theirs, too. (And if you’re reviewing books in your genre, readers will see those reviews and be more likely to buy yours, so think about that. When I post a review, my name is always followed  by “author, The Unicorn’s Daughter” since that book is now the first in an upcoming series.)

2. Same goes for blogs. If you’re not reading and commenting on others’ blogs, yours is going to be a pretty lonely place. Again, when you’re seen making clever comments on other bloggers’ blogs, their followers are likely to check out yours. That’s how I found some of my favorite bloggers.

3. Promote each others’ books. Invite other authors to guest post on your blog–or interview them. For my Amazon author page, I used an interview my partner in crime, William Kendall, did with me. It was a lot more interesting than the standard author bio!

4. Invite other authors to join you in promotions.  Example: Hilary Grossman, author of Dangled Carat (which, by the way, is now on sale at Amazon!). Hilary is an inspiration. She was working on her book when a rather nasty hurricane named Sandy hit the east coast. I remember Hilary’s struggles in the aftermath of Sandy’s devastation–but she finished her book, published it, and went on to arrange a couple of successful book giveaways–not only to promote her own book, but those of her friends as well. I was honored to be asked to participate–and pleased with the boost in sales I got each time.

A few years back, William Kendall, Mike Saxton, Beth Muscat, Krisztina Williams, Eve Gaal, Shelly Arkon, Mark Richard Hunter, April Morone, Lena Winfrey Seder and I formed Writers of Mass Distraction in the Writers Digest online community, a group where we could laugh, bitch and moan, whatever was needed, and have friendly ears listening and providing sympathy, advice and a few cyberhugs as needed. When the WD community went extinct, we moved the group to Facebook, adding a second group, Writers Mayhem, which we opened to a larger membership than the original group. We’ve had to boot a few bad apples from that group, but overall, it’s been a success.

Get a bunch of writers together and we’ll put a Shriners convention to shame. After being alone with our own thoughts and a cast of uncooperative characters for days on end, we need the release. Be patient with us. Sanity doesn’t come easily to writers!